"I Had These Friends…"

A week ago my latest book, Fifty Shades of They, hit the shelves at bookstores across the country. This is a book that has taken me 53 years to write, and one that has the potential and power to start a relational revolution! But like anything, there's a story behind the story. This is just a quick glimpse at the story that prompted the creation of this book. I'd love to hear back from you about how this book is helping you surround yourself ...

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Who are THEY?

Posted on January 30, 2015

We're all created to live in relationship. After all, human beings are relational creatures. But the question we have to ask  is, "WHO ARE THEY?" How do we know if we are doing life with the right THEY? Do a friendventory! Here are six concise questions that will help you determine if you're doing life with the right they, or the wrong they... Do they motivate me to love God more? Do they celebrate God’s blessings in my life? Do they ...

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Posted on January 10, 2014

This weekend, we're kicking off a series at Fellowship Church that EVERYONE can relate to. In our world today, we have a love/hate relationship with technology. On one hand, it keeps us connected like never before. But are there dangers in being constantly connected, never unplugged? Make sure you are at one of our many locations this weekend as we ask these questions...and help us all learn the ups and downs, highs and lows of technology! ...

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Family Octagon: Love – Battle – Win

Posted on July 23, 2013

Don't miss this series launching in the Fall at Fellowship Church! [youtube jVVVaFy17-8 480 284]

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"Sexperiment" and D the Broadcast

Posted on March 28, 2013

Had a blast with the cast and crew of D the Broadcast this morning! [youtube K6Kfv3NIXuk 480 360]

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10 Commandments of Purity

Posted on October 9, 2012

Lisa and I just finished a great webinar with C3 Global about sexual purity. In it, we covered our "10 Commandments of Purity" (We've also put these in our book Sexperiment ). If you missed it, here they are: 10 Commandments of Purity  1) I shall have no other human relationship before Lisa. Your spouse is the most important earthly relationship you will have. Make that relationship a priority! 2) Remember your date night and keep it ...

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Posted on September 17, 2012

Whether you teach in the classroom, work in the boardroom or are trying to keep the peace in the living room, you don't want to miss this life-changing relationship conferene at Fellowship Church! [youtube wnr4LgpTZxM 480 284] REGISTER FOR FREE, and be part of this event that will elevate every relationship in your life! It's time to EARN YOUR PHD IN RELATIONOLOGY!!!

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I'm Not ______ Enough.

Posted on August 27, 2012

Have you ever felt like this? [youtube kzpEsk_kwCU 480 284] Don't miss out on what's coming this September at Fellowship Church!

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Cool Aid and Ice

Posted on June 7, 2012

Fellowship Creative definitely helped stir up the conversation with this video that kicked off our series "Cool Aid". The topic of the message? Gay marriage, what the Bible says about it, and how we should respond. Check it out! [youtube emeODz2M5Eg 480 274]

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7 Steps to a SucSEXful Marriage!

Posted on February 10, 2012

A great marriage doesn't just happen. It takes purpose and intentionality. Here are 7 steps that will help you reach the level God has in store for your marriage! Have A Spouse Centric Relationship!  The most important earthly relationship you have is with your spouse. Husbands, put your wife first. Wives, put your husband first. Yes, even above the kids. Because remember...kids leave and spouses stay! Have Regular Date Night/Mate Nights When ...

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